Well we just got home from the bachelor party for Jacob.
It went off well. He was in the dark for most of the night, literally at times, when he was wearing the blindfold.
Here’s the re-cap:
We started off by blind-folding him and taking him on a car ride to disorient him to where we were headed for the first thing of the night. The only problem is I got us genuinely lost. I meant to head here and go up and back down, but there’s a lot of new construction up there and I got totally turned around and couldn’t find our way off of the plateau, and ended up having to come back down the same way we came up which served its purpose by disorienting him, but it cost us about 20 min of driving instead of the 5 that it should have taken.
We finally ended up at Whitworth College (our alma mater and Jacob’s work), to his surprise where we were going to play frisbee golf. We then proceeded to make him put on a shirt that said “I’m getting married. Treat me special!”, which he had to wear for the evening. I then passed out the personalized frisbees that I had bought and made today for each on the groomsmen, that said “Jacob’s Bachelor Party 8-16-06 and _______ (name)”. So Ben, Keith, Travis and I all got red Whitworth Frisbees and Jacob got a glow in the dark one.
After a great game of frisbee golf, with the scores being Keith +3, Jacob +6, Ben +8, me +10, and Travis was +1 (but that’s because he was late and only played one hole).
We took some pictures and blindfolded Jacob up again. After driving in circles here (notice the small triangle in the center of the map) about 6 or 7 times (all right hand turns), we proceeded to head to the place where we were going to eat. Ben at one point accidentally called out the name of a coffee stand, called Bean Me Up, which was a mistake because it’s only like 4 blocks from Jacob’s house and he drives past it everyday on his way to work, I had to do some quick maneuvering to throw him off again. We finally ended up at one of Jacob’s favorite restaurants, Tomato Street for dinner. We stuffed our faces with good Italian food and celebrated communion with each other.
After only being able to eat about 1/5 of each of our portions (they are HUGE, especially their calzones which Ben, Keith and Travis all got) we headed towards our final destination for the evening.
Downtown Spokane has really become a cool place. The city has worked hard to make it a place that is alive with culture and things to do. One of my favorite places is FarWest Billiards. And luckily Jacob likes it too. Since there wasn’t a pool table available when we first got there, we put our names on a list and entertained ourselves with some darts. Cricket to be exact (that is we played no slop, where you must go in order 20-15 and there are no points kept). It was an amazingly close game. Keith took and early lead, but Jacob came back and took over the lead. With everyone close in tail. I, myself ended up being the first one to reach the bullseye stage, quickly getting 1 of 3 points. It took me a while and everyone caught up to me, with Jacob being the first one to get one point on the bullseye. A few turns later I closed out the game, with an outer ring shot (worth 1) and then missing the 2nd dart, with the winning shot, a shot where I would have to arch the last dart above the 2 other darts which were protecting the bullseye. Somehow I managed to pull it off and win. It was a great match.
We then moved on to pool.
With the 5 of us we wanted to make sure everyone was playing, which meant that we played cutthroat (with 5 players each having 3 balls as their own).
Keith definitely was the pool shark among us winning more than anyone else. It was a fun way to end the evening. And to top all things off the last game came down to Keith and Travis. Keith had one of Travis’ balls to make to take him out and win. Keith with all of his gusto, pummeled the cue ball sending Travis’ last 6 ball off the table. Which allowed Travis a chance to win the game. Both of Keith’s balls were at the far end of the table close to each other and Travis’ ball on the marker for where the balls start. Travis knew that he really couldn’t make either one of Keith’s balls and if he left the cue ball anywhere other than right smack against a rail or behind Keith’s balls then Keith would have a huge shot towards Travis’ last ball. In a moment of genius, Travis decided to nudge his ball from the center of the table as to make the shot harder for Keith. The best part was as soon as the cue ball came off of the cue and hit the 6 ball, it went directly into the corner pocket giving Keith the win. What a way to end the night. We all had a great laugh, finished up the film we had been shooting (a disposable B&W; camera) and all headed home, only to know that we would see each other tomorrow as we continued to celebrate Jacob and Krista’s wedding.
I myself look forward to what is to come in the next few days. I am keenly aware of God’s presence and blessing on this whole experience. And I am more than honored to be Jacob’s best man and to have the responsibility of being able to plan his bachelor party.
May God keep us and give us peace as the time draws near to the moment when man and woman become one.
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